On Day 4 without power following our recent late-October snowstorm, a woman in her 90s slowly rolled into a municipally-run emergency shelter at a nearby metro-west Boston town.  Leaning heavily on her walker, she looked at the shelter manager wearily and said, “I’m cold. I want to sleep here tonight.”  Her caregiver interjected quickly, “I have to get back home,” eyeing the exit.

The shelter manager quizzed them about the elder’s ability to function independently.  How much care was needed, and what type?  It turns out that the caregiver came 3-4 days a week; the senior was a bit confused, not fully independent in several of the activities of daily living, nor could she manage her own medications safely. Just not handling her medications independently was enough of a deal breaker, according to the manager. “I’m sorry, but this shelter cannot accommodate you,” said the manager. “You’ll have to find somewhere else to stay.” (more…)