This is a very difficult and emotional topic: what do you do if you suspect (or know) an elder is being abused or neglected? This would include emotional, physical, sexual and/or financial abuse or neglect; self-neglect is also included. If you’re not sure what might be considered elder abuse or neglect, here are some guidelines from the US Administration on Aging.
I always strongly encourage the person with the suspicions or knowledge to report them — but often the next questions are: how and to whom? Here are four approaches, each based upon my working in Massachusetts. I will also include general info for those reading this concerned about elders living elsewhere in the US.
The most vulnerable members of our community need help from every one of us. Overwhelmed and frustrated caregivers need help too, which is often what happens when elder abuse or neglect is report. Your report might just be what turns the situation around for everyone.









